Question 1

Is screening really required?

Accepted Answer

Just as I prioritize your comfort, I ask for a light verification process to ensure mine. It’s discreet, easy, and respectful—just like me. Full details are on my Etiquette & Expectations page.

Question 2

FMTY: Can I book longer experiences?

Accepted Answer

Longer experiences (48 hours or more) are cherished moments, available by personal request only.

Because of my academic and professional commitments, I kindly ask for 3 to 6 weeks' notice so I can prepare with the presence and intention you deserve.

✨ That said, I understand spontaneity can be magical — I’ll always do my best to accommodate last-minute requests when possible. 💌

Question 3

Can I text or email instead of using the booking form?

Accepted Answer

Of course. While the booking form is preferred (it’s faster and keeps everything organized), I understand some gentlemen prefer a more personal touch. You’re welcome to reach out via text or email using this simplified format.

Question 4

Do you travel to other cities in Iowa (outside of IC/C)?

Accepted Answer

Yes - I welcome dates outside of IC/C. My booking form is purposely brief and preferred. Alternatively, please inquire via text or email, including your city, preferred date(s), and what you’d like to enjoy together. I do not drive at this time. For dates outside of Iowa City/Coralville, a travel fee may be required to reserve transportation. Travel fees are based on actual transportation costs and typically range from $50–$300+ depending on distance, destination, and transportation availability.There is no minimum time requirement for dates outside of Iowa City/Coralville.For longer-distance or evening engagements, overnight accommodations may be required. Hotel arrangements are handled by me, and accommodation costs are the responsibility of the suitor. Once booked, hotel payments may be subject to the property's refund policy.

Question 5

How should I prepare for our time?

Accepted Answer

Come as you would to impress a date. Be freshly showered, groomed, and minty. Clean hands, clean nails, and clean intentions are always appreciated.

Question 6

What are you looking for in new friends?

Accepted Answer

Some connections are brief and sweet. Others unfold with deeper alignment and lasting meaning.
I’m open to suitors who appreciate quality time, whether that means occasional, thoughtfully shared moments or extended experiences that allow us to truly connect.

If you're moved by genuine presence — no matter the timeframe — we might be a good fit.

I’m inspired by men who move with intention:
Present and emotionally grounded
Generous in spirit and action
Rooted in integrity
Supportive of my journey — whether academic, personal, or professional

It's less about how long we spend together, and more about how authentically you show up and what you bring to the experience.

💌 For a deeper glimpse into what inspires and grounds me, feel free to explore my About page.

Question 7

What are your accepted payment methods?

Accepted Answer

Travel fees (for dates outside of IC/C) or cancellation fees (hotel incall) may be paid via Cash App or Apple Pay. Balance of donation is to be presented in cash upon arrival unless we’ve arranged otherwise in advance.

Question 8

What if I need to cancel?

Accepted Answer

I understand that unexpected things can come up. If you need to cancel a date outside IC/C, please notify me as early as possible.

Please note that travel fees are non-refundable once bookings (e.g., flights, hotel) have been secured. However, if I’m able to cancel those arrangements without penalty, I’ll gladly issue a partial or full refund based on what can be recovered.

For Hotel Incall dates, the hotel fee is included in the final rate you bring—no advance payment required. That said, if you cancel within 24 hours of our scheduled time and I’ve already booked the hotel, I expect the $200 hotel fee to be reimbursed, as the reservation is typically non-refundable. Future bookings may not be accepted until this is settled.

If I ever need to cancel for any reason, you will receive a full refund of any travel fee or deposit paid, or you may reschedule at no additional cost.

Question 9

📬 Where do I place the donation envelope?

Accepted Answer

In public: Please present it at the beginning of our time, either at arrival or once seated.
In-home: Place it discreetly on the nearest counter upon entering. You’re welcome to freshen up afterward.
Hotel/In-suite: Place the envelope on the bathroom counter. I’ll excuse myself to freshen up when I arrive.

Question 10

📞 Will you call me?

Accepted Answer

Only if you ask me to. I prefer to arrange our conversations by text first. Please send a message before calling to ensure I can give you my full attention.

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