Question 1

Arrival & Comfort (Hotel/In-Home Dates)

Accepted Answer

Incall: Please arrive no more than 15 mins early.
Hotel (Outcall): Ensure the room is clean, safe, and reserved in your name. You must provide your room number upon my arrival.
Cleanliness: Fresh breath, clean hands, and good hygiene are non-negotiable. I reserve the right to cancel an experience without refund if hygiene is not respected.

Question 2

Cancellation & Rescheduling Policy

Accepted Answer

I understand that life happens — plans can shift, and emergencies arise. My goal is to be both understanding and professional, while also protecting the time, effort, and preparation that goes into each experience.

General Cancellations & No-Shows
Please give at least 30 minutes’ notice if you need to cancel or reschedule.
No-shows or cancellations with less than 30 minutes’ notice will require a deposit or full prepayment to book again.
After two cancellations or reschedules, a deposit will be required to secure any future dates.

🏨 Hotel Incall (IC/C) Cancellation Policy
The hotel fee is included in the final rate you bring to our date—no need to pay this in advance.
However, if you cancel within 24 hours and I've already booked the hotel, I do expect the $200 hotel fee to be reimbursed, as these bookings are typically non-refundable.
No future dates will be accepted until that fee is settled.
If you cancel with more than 24 hours' notice, no fee is required.

✈️ Distant Dates (OIC/C + FMTY)
If you cancel after travel has been booked, the travel fee may not be refunded.
Rescheduling is possible, but may require a rescheduling fee, depending on timing and arrangements already made.
If I ever need to cancel (extremely rare), you will receive a full refund of any travel fee paid.

Question 3

Date Planning + Duration

Accepted Answer

I offer both curated and client-planned dates — it simply depends on your style and what you envision.

If you'd like me to take the lead, I’m happy to handle the details. Letting me plan allows you to simply show up and enjoy.

That said, multi-hour and multi-day dates require thoughtful planning. While it's always ideal to collaborate and plan these together, I can take the lead with a few key details from you:

Desired duration (hours or days)
Ideal trip or experience budget
Preferred setting (private, public, cozy, upscale, etc.)
Any requests, must-haves, or restrictions
Your availability or schedule constraints
What you’d like the date to center around (intimacy, indulgence, connection, cuisine, etc.)

The more I know about your preferences, the more tailored (and memorable) your experience will be.

💌 Note: If I'm coordinating your date, any expenses that require upfront payment (restaurants, hotels, activities) must be prepaid by you before booking. I will confirm pricing and deadlines with you in advance.

Question 4

Dining + Drinks

Accepted Answer

You’re responsible for all costs related to meals, drinks, or activities we enjoy together unless otherwise stated. Prefer a restaurant or in-room dining? Just share your vibe, and I’ll come dressed accordingly.

For Out-of-Town Dates: 
If I’m planning or making reservations on your behalf, I’ll confirm details in advance. Prepayment for any meals, experiences, or tickets may be required before I book. Any expenses that require upfront payment (like fine dining, spa appointments, or ticketed events) must be prepaid before booking.

Some reservations may need to be secured immediately, while others may allow flexibility. If you'd prefer, I can send one total payment request — or invoice as we go, depending on what’s available.

Question 5

Gifts & Donations (Spoil Me)

Accepted Answer

Donations: Should be presented in cash, unless arranged otherwise. Please place them:
My Place: On the nearest counter when you arrive, then feel free to freshen up.
Your Place: On the bathroom counter — I’ll excuse myself to freshen up when I arrive.
Public dates: Hand it to me discreetly at the beginning of our date.
Cashapp: Donations may be sent via CashApp at the start of our date.

Gifts: Whether it’s your favorite wine, a thoughtful book, or a more extravagant token, I always appreciate meaningful gifts. For inspiration, visit my Gifts & Indulgences page.

Message to You: Donations are for my time and companionship only. I am grateful for your thoughtful gifts or donations, and I hope that this is reflected as I strive to cater to you.

Question 6

Mutual Vibes

Accepted Answer

I always come prepared - soft lighting, curated playlists, bites, ambiance. But I love when a man adds his own touch - think flowers, candles, good music, or a surprise I wasn’t expecting 💐

Chivalry is still very sexy. This isn’t just a date — it’s a private world we’re creating together. Let’s make it cinematic.

Question 7

Presence & Hygiene

Accepted Answer

I ask that you arrive freshly showered, well-groomed, and with minty breath - just as you would for any meaningful first date.
You must be STD/disease-free.
For in-home  and incall hotel visits, I’ve got everything you might need in case you want to freshen up

Question 8

Public Date Options

Accepted Answer

Public experiences (like dinner or drinks) are meant to feel effortless and elegant. Please note, if it's cold outside, I may be less inclined to attend a public date as I'm still adjusting to Iowa's weather.

💌 Please hand me your donation discreetly at the start of our date.

Question 9

Screening Is Required

Accepted Answer

I am selective, just as you are. Screening is a way for me to verify who I will be meeting. It is for my safety, and is required.

To screen, please provide:
A photo of your government-issued ID (you may blur sensitive details)
A selfie holding the same ID (you may blur sensitive details)
Must be visible: Name, Birthday, Photo/Image

In most cases, this will be enough. In rare cases, if additional verification is needed, I may ask for one of the following:
LinkedIn profile
Profile on company website

Question 10

Social Media + Reviews + Referrals

Accepted Answer

I do not maintain an active on social media (I do hope to change that in the near future).

Phone Verification: If this concerns you, feel free to give me a call to ease your worries (text first). Please be mindful that I am a student and work full-time; I may not be in a space to entertain certain lines of questions.

I value my privacy and would appreciate it if you would please be respectful and keep our time to yourself. Still, reviews are ok, but Referrals are preferred.

Question 11

📩 Questions?

Accepted Answer

Communication is key. If you have questions or want to personalize your experience, feel free to text or email anytime. Calls are welcome but please text first to schedule.

For multi-day dates or those with Mentor’s Privilege, more frequent contact is natural and encouraged — like spending time with someone you enjoy. For shorter or one-time dates, I appreciate respectful boundaries to ensure my presence is fully available when we meet.

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